Per Joseph's suggestion. Use these patches against sendmail 8.9.3 and add
O RCPTFailDelay=30
to sendmail.cf to make sendmail sleep() for 30 seconds before reporting any
"550" errors. Set the value to 0 for "normal" behavior.
According to the reports I'm seeing, GeoList Pro does not wait for a
response from the server -- instead, it streams the RCPT TO commands
continuously and then reads the results at the end of transmission.
If that is the case, it doesn't sound like this patch will have any
effect.